Adventures with Baby Hutch 2: Month 5

Another month has FLOWN by and oh my goodness…it has been a busy one!

1. We MOVED! We have spent the last year building what we hope is our ‘forever’ home and it is finally finished! Moving while pregnant, and with a toddler, may not have been the best decision in the world, but we made it! We have 345309485 things to do/unpack/organize but I have been told to take it day-by-day (by friends and my doctor!). We are SO beyond grateful to have been able to build the house so I’m trying to maintain perspective among the absolute chaos.
2. Speaking of moving, this baby is moving–a LOT. I was told that I have an anterior placenta this go-around and I may not feel him a lot. I do, but it’s very different. He is LOW and the kicks feel like they are deep within my body this time.
3. Still have bad acne. And occasional migraines.
4. I have officially started planning for the nursery! I realized that this baby will be here before we know it and I’d love to get Cal in to his big-boy-bed sooner rather than later so I can get this crib in to the new baby’s room. Here’s a little inspiration I put together for this nursery…can’t wait to start ‘nesting’.
Keeping things cool, neutral with a ton of texture and a POP of mustard yellow for some color. I found a great fabric to reupholster the crib with too! Can’t wait to see how it all turns out! And then I need to figure out what I am doing for Cal’s room and the playroom in the basement–eep! The amazingly talented team at Sarah Catherine Collective has the rest of our house covered (omg can’t wait to share that too!), but there is something about the boy’s rooms that I just love to play with (although…I’m sure I’ll be pleading for her help VERY soon!).
5. My go-to belly oils/creams this time are Belli Oil and Palmer’s Cocoa Butter. Hopefully they work as well as last time and I remain stretch mark free!
6. I ventured down to Florida for some wedding planning a couple of weeks ago and it was great to see a few of my very best friends (VERY briefly) while being pregnant again so they could rub the belly :).
7. We took our Thanksgiving/“We have moved” card pictures this past month with Allison Kuhn Photography. Baby Hutch 2 made his debut in our family card (as a little bump). It was amazing what magic she could work in just a 4-minute shoot. LRT did my hair and makeup of course :). See them HERE.
8. I need to get more maternity clothing. My wardrobe is SO limited right now and the moms at Cal’s school drop off are probably growing concerned that I am always wearing the same outfit.
9. I started to get anxiety about how to manage mornings and evenings by myself with 2 kids…since Hutch travels a lot for work. Any advice? I assume I’ll just somehow make it work?!?!
10. We OFFICIALLY have a name picked out!!! I ordered some things with his name monogrammed on it. So it’s officially ‘official’ (at least in the South).

And here is my 23 week bump picture…in front of a new mirror in his new room (sad…tears!).…with a different shirt on (can’t find my usual right now!). I am up 6lbs and feeling this belly more and more each day. [Month 5 with Cal]

Our Thanksgiving Card 2015

One of my favorite times of the year occurs when I open up my mailbox to find holiday cards! This year, I was worried with our move that we’d miss out on a lot of them going to our old address, so I decided to get a jump on it and do a Thanksgiving card vs. Christmas with our change of address. Allison of Allison Kuhn Photography graciously took time out of her already busy schedule (she’s a really good photographer if you didn’t already know) to shoot us while our house was under construction. And of course, LRT of Be Pretty came over to make me beautiful and cover up my pregnancy acne. Love you two to the moon. Here is our card and some other pictures–Callahan was being AWFUL and was signing ‘more’ the entire time for food. Beast-mode. All day. Still amazed and love how they turned out :).
And here is the house–almost done! We’re in now…still a LOT to do but loving it!

Adventures with Baby Hutch 2: Month 4

Month 4–woohoo! Finally feeling better. The 2nd trimester is so much better than the first. Just like last time…the top 10 thoughts of the month below!

1. Being pregnant with a toddler running around is a lot harder than with out one. I used to be able to nap at my leisure, sit down and rest…binge-watch Law & Order. Those were the days. They’re gone. Now Callahan wants to table-surf all day and throw things incessantly. First-time-moms…enjoy the quiet.
2. I have had bad acne again this time around. I’ve been getting facials with Priti at Le Petit Spa (also where I get my waxing done) and my skin is much improved. I’m on a totally new skin care regiment too since I turned 29 and realized 30 is quickly approaching (and so are my wrinkles).
3. Waking up to go to the bathroom a lot still…and a lot all day. Worse this time around!
4.  Maternity clothing is in full-force. I have to unfortunately get a new wardrobe since I am pregnant at the exact OPPOSITE time as last year. Still wearing a lot of dresses, but as soon as it cools down I will have to head to the stores…
5. Round ligament pains are also in full-force. Along with some sciatic pain and tailbone pain. Month 9 should feel awesome.
6. I have felt movement for a few weeks already-which is nuts. I think I have another storm brewing in there and my dream of a ‘calm baby’ may never come true.…
7. Callahan has 0 concept of the whole ‘brother’ thing…he’s too young.
8. A lot of people have told me that I am going to LOVE having 2 boys–which makes me even more excited about it!
9. My #1 craving this time has been lemonade…I’ve had to curb that habit because that is NOT good for you! I still indulge in the cookies though. Give me all the cookies.
10. I’ve started to think of some things that I will need double of…any advice would be much appreciated!

First purchase I’ve made is similar to the first purchase I made with Cal–the stroller. We’re obsessed with our Bugaboo so I went that route (after some confirmation from friends with the duo stroller!) for the Bugaboo Donkey Duo in Royal Blue (now my strollers are Gator colors–orange and blue! Did that on purpose.). We love the versatility of these strollers and hopefully the Duo does not disappoint!
I’m hoping to get Cal in to a big-boy bed around 18 months (someone please tell me that is do-able), and then reuse the crib for Baby Boy Hutch #2. I am even toying with the idea of reupholstering the sides of it. I know I can rely on our amazing interior designer Sarah Catherine to help me out here! I have no idea what I’m going to do for his nursery but I want to make it as special as the first!
I have been painfully suffering with terrible migraines lately (I did with Cal too but they seem worse this time around). I was on a 7-day-streak and at my wits end. I texted my Pilates instructor to let her know why I hadn’t been coming in and she rushed over with Essential Oils. My mom is a doctor, truthfully I don’t believe in this stuff. I am all about scientific-based medicine (which you mostly can NOT take during pregnancy). You guys, she rubbed these on me and my headache was GONE within minutes. Needless to say I overnight UPS-emergency-shipped these bad boys and am a total believer.
And here is a 16 week picture of the bump! Much bigger than last time, feeling lots of movement and loving it. Up 2lbs since my last weigh in and loving this sweet boy already.

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You look AMAZING! Is it weird that I bookmarked your crib approx 1 year ago and we aren’t even pregnant yet? Obsessed! My sister has that stroller and she absolutely loves it for her 2 little ones

Adventures with Baby Hutch 2: Month 3

Thank you all so much again for the outpouring of love and congratulations! I am so happy the cat is out of the bag because I am already showing BIG TIME and it’s been super hard to keep it under wraps! I’m going to try as hard as possible to do things the same for #2 as I did for #1 (sorry you didn’t get a cool announcement video BBH #2!), so here are the top 10 questions I’ve received in the last day or so!

1. How/When did you find out?
July 24th–the day before Cal turned 11 months. We were definitely ‘trying’ so finding out was certainly not as big of a surprise. A few months had passed with no success so I actually had my thyroid checked by my doctor just to be sure everything was OK with me. He said I was fine and he’d be shocked if I wasn’t pregnant very soon. I sort of put it all aside and trusted that God had a plan and I needed to ‘let it go’.  A few weeks later, it was a Friday afternoon (I was due for my monthly the next day–by the way, there is no ‘nice’ way to say that-ha!) and Hutch and I had planned to go to happy hour with one of our friends. Cal and I went for our usual 4pm walk together through Uptown and stopped to see Dad. We chatted about happy hour, how we couldn’t wait to have a cocktail (or 2…or 3) and then Cal and I went on our way and Dad went back to work for 1 more hour until it was time to start the weekend. On my very short walk back to our condo, I had a weird feeling. Something deep in my gut told me to just pop in to Rite Aid (right next to our condo) and buy a test before I get my Tito’s+soda on.  I casually got my test, said ‘hello’ to our friends who work there (they love Cal) and headed up to our condo. I actually got in to our condo and forgot about the test–it was sitting in the bottom of the stroller and I was busy chasing Cal around making sure he didn’t kill the dogs (as usual). After a few minutes the light bulb went off and I went to the bathroom. Boom. 2 lines. FAST–just like last time. HOLY MOLY. This time Hutch wasn’t home, so I had to think VERY fast on how to tell him. I decided to hide the test in one of Cal’s toys and show Hutch Cal’s new ‘trick’ with the toy…once he opened it up, the test was in there and he was SHOCKED. Needless to say, happy hour was cancelled-in the very best way :).
2. Will you be doing weekly pregnancy updates?
Nope. Didn’t last time, won’t this time. I will still try to do a monthly update like last time–I want this pregnancy and baby to be just as special as the first!

3. When are you due?
Somewhere around the middle of March–not 100% sure because I will have a scheduled c-section due to my labor experience with Callahan.
4. What’s his name?
No clue! And we won’t announce it until he is born again :).

5. How have you been feeling?
Terrible. Again. I SO envy you mamas that have fabulously easy pregnancies. This is truly not my strong suit. So tired, throwing up, acne…you name it. This has been no different than the first. I have not lost the significant amount of weight like I did with Cal. I have lost 1lb as of today…vs I think it was 9lbs with Cal. For anyone I have been MIA with or ‘short-tempered’–I am sorry! My poor, poor husband–he is the best.

6. Did you want another boy?
I’ve gone back and forth on wanting 2 boys (I honestly related better to them as I have never played with a doll in my entire life) but usually landed on thinking I wanted one of each–funny enough up until about a week before we found out I felt this way. The day before we found out, at my bible study, we talked about being willful and trying to make our own plans in life. It was really at that very moment, in that very bible study, where I decided that it wasn’t up to me, and a healthy baby (regardless of gender) was all that mattered, and I was silly for even caring. When I opened up the results and saw “BOY”, I truly felt nothing but joy–because right next to it were the HEALTHY results we had been praying for. Hutch was so worried that I was going to be sad, but I wasn’t at all! HE was actually sort of sad (just for a minute really). Truly, we are over joyed and can’t wait for these brothers to meet each other! Plus–I remain the queen of this castle :)

7. Will you try for a 3rd?
Nope. :) (never say never I suppose…but the plan is for 2) IF we go for a 3rd, it’s for a 3rd child–not for the hope of a girl.

8. How did you tell your family?
I told my parents over the phone and we told Hutch’s parents at CLT’s airport as we left for Aruba. Speaking of Aruba–I was SICK the entire time. One whole day I didn’t even leave the hotel room–so sad! We told all of our siblings over the phone as well!

9. How far apart will the boys be?
20 months! 2 under 2–I know we’re crazy.
10. How did you find out the gender so early?
Our doctor had us do the Panorama test–which was new since we had Cal. It’s so fun knowing this early!

That’s it for now…hoping I’ll be able to get it together for Month 4 update! I’ll leave you with a bump shot-only 15 weeks along, down 1lb (much better than last time!) and showing MUCH sooner this time! xo


Dear Callahan,

You are ONE. How in the world did that happen? I love watching you grow, it’s the best. Every new day and discovery blows our mind and we watch you with such wonder. Let’s recap your year, my big boy.
Month 1
I wish I could tell you that the day you were born was pure magic filled with butterflies and rainbows–but it wasn’t (birth story HERE). And that’s OK. We’re going to keep it real here. Mama had a VERY hard labor and an even harder recovery ahead of her. You broke my tailbone with that big noggin’ of yours (big brains they say). I couldn’t physically walk, get out of bed, get out of a chair, go to the bathroom, take a shower…really do anything with out a LOT of help from your dad (we got REAL close those first few weeks-ha!). But you came out healthy, and we thank God for that. Your dada was smitten, immediately. It took me a bit more warming up, not going to lie. I was in so much physical pain that it was very difficult for me to enjoy you, or anything for that matter. It wasn’t until day 8 of your life that I even changed your diaper for the first time. It was rough-going. God listened and knew what I was going through because you were (and still are) such a GOOD baby. You rarely cried and that helped for sure. You started smiling socially (not just gas) at just 3-weeks-old. Even your doctor was  impressed. You were STRONG from day 1 with great head and neck control, ability to roll (not on purpose) and very active. You didn’t nap much (still don’t), and always always always wanted stimulation. You were not the ‘sleepy newborn’ people told me about! You came out with a voracious appetite and by week 3.5 I started you on formula. Breastfeeding was proving to be too much with my other ‘injuries’ going on, so something had to give. I did not feel any ‘mom guilt’ that people talk about–so don’t worry! You loved Similac, so Mama loved Similac too! That was a game-changer for sure and my sanity began to return. Your wonderful nanny, Marina, also started around the same time and you have been best of friends ever since. I went back to work quickly, I needed it. It made me a better mom for you sweet boy. The first month was the biggest adjustment of my life but I knew it was all going to be worth it (and it is).

Birth Photography: The Schultzes, Newborn Photography: Laura Wopperer
Month 2
In month 2 of your life we were really getting in to the swing of things. You were starting to sleep really well at night (10 hours by 7 weeks–another answered prayer from God). I started taking walks with you, which was a really big deal from where we started at day 1. Each day we’d walk a little bit further and my strength was returning. You officially rolled from back-to-belly that month, your dada was so proud. You started laughing–full blown BELLY laughs during month 2. It was the cutest thing. You celebrated your first Halloween and you were a raccoon. We did our first family-shoot with Allison Kuhn Photography (get used to those buddy). You met your Godparents, went to the pumpkin patch and we started to get really excited for the holidays to come.
Month 3
You took your very first flight to New Jersey to see your family there, and you did great on the plane. You are just the happiest, most smiley baby and truly make our life easier with your happy disposition. We celebrated your first Thanksgiving and picked out your very first Christmas Tree. You even helped us ‘deck the halls’. Mama got her groove back and started Pilates again. I had lost all of my baby weight really quickly but any mom can tell you your body is just ‘different’. It was nice to get that back again! I started Christmas shopping for you and couldn’t wait to celebrate as a family of 3 at home with you. Best part of the month–you consistently were sleeping 12–13 hours through the night by 12 weeks and haven’t stopped since. We love your sleeping habits at night!
Photography: Allison Kuhn Photography

Month 4
I took my very first trip away from you this month. I had a wedding at the Biltmore in Asheville so dad was on duty. It took no less than 3 hours to get a frantic phone call from him. He had ATTEMPTED to cut your nails for the first time and knicked your finger. Had Marina not been there, and I had not answered my phone–you would have taken a trip to the ER no doubt. He is so protective of you and loves you too much. This month you graced our first Christmas card–star of the show. You met Santa and did GREAT. Biggest smile, it was adorable. You were also Baby Jesus in our church’s Christmas service. You did great and pulled Mary’s hair the entire time, everyone was cracking up. You had the best time on Christmas morning. We moved all of our living room furniture and put down a bunch of blankets on the floor. I had wrapped tons of gifts for you (and you were given TONS because you are the spoiled first grandchild on both sides of the family!), and you opened them with such zest. You were SCREAMING and tearing them all apart. It was hilarious. One of my favorite memories. We spent the day snuggled together just enjoying the special moments.

Month 5
Happy New Year! This month you learned to roll from belly-to-back and started CRAWLING. You were moving and grooving everywhere and so began my heart palpitations. You rode the LiteRail for the first time (our train in Charlotte), went appliance shopping for the new house we’re building with us, and started sitting up successfully too! We took tons of walks to dad’s office to see him during the day. All in all, a good month.

Month 6
This month you went to Vail, CO with us! We got to see your grandparents while we were there too. You loved hotel-life, and settled in nicely. On the airplane, you played with the puke bag the entire time instead of the 200 toys I brought for you. That’s OK, you were still good. The biggest deal this month was your Baptism. We pray that you love Jesus. Your great grandmother (whom you’re named after), both sets of grandparents and Godparents and Aunt and Uncle Ash+Alex all flew in for the special occasion and we had a wonderful celebration at the Duke Mansion afterwards. Allison Kuhn also shot that for us and we just love those images so much. You also got RSV that month and had it for your Baptism but you still don’t seem to care when you’re sick. You started doing a ‘fish’ face that was so cute and you did it non-stop for weeks.

Photography: Allison Kuhn Photography

Month 7

Month 7 was just a fun one. This is when you really started to come alive in your personality–my favorite month yet. No offense, but you babies are sort of boring for the first 6 months. Cute, but sort of boring. The weather started to warm up so we did a lot more things out and about with you. You were really turning in to a social butterfly and we loved watching that. You also helped us sell and close on our condo that month. Your first home, so many memories. We got to stay in it through out the entire house build though so we were so thankful. You started to look more and more like your dad (I just work here!). We got to do our second family shoot with the Byrums of Kristin Byrum Photography in the peach blossoms–they turned out SO cute, we had such a blast. Our time together during the day at the parks were some of my favorite. Just you and me, hanging in the grass. You started pulling up too…Each day was getting sweeter with you.
Photography: Kristin Byrum Photography

Month 8
This month started off with a bang. I had my first wedding of 2015 and we went on your first official vacation out of the country–to Mexico! We went back to where we honeymooned and had the best time ever. You thought you were the mayor of Mayakoba and the memories we made are truly priceless. You swam for the first time (and loved it). You are definitely a water baby. You loved the airplane rides this time too. You’re definitely your father’s child. We celebrated EASTER! And you were the cutest little bunny on a play date with your friend Collin (you’re only a few days apart). I loved making your Easter basket, even though you didn’t seem to care. Dad bought you an activity cube and you seemed to love that impulse-buy way more than my carefully curated basket. You started clapping, attended your first Charlotte Knights Baseball game (and got a home run ball from it!), you started eating meats (that I made–I actually cooked all of your baby food and still do!), and you started acting like a dog. You carried everything in your mouth just like your brother and sister. You also discovered the toilet, toilet paper and anything else bathroom-related. You took your first swing ride at Latta Park and I took you to Discovery Place for the first time. You were blossoming before our very eyes.

Month 9
We quickly bought you a membership to Discovery Place. You go almost daily with Marina. You started attempting to stand on your own and scaring us. Marina also started potty-training you. And I wouldn’t believe it if I didn’t see it myself–it’s working! You’re very proud of yourself. We celebrated my first Mother’s Day and you pulled out all the stops. A delicious brunch at Baku and an afternoon at The Ritz Spa–you’re the best. We got you a water table for your balcony which you love. You really started to get in to EVERYTHING so it’s all eyes on Cal at this point. We celebrated your Dad’s birthday too. The house started to really go up and we started visiting it almost daily. We also discovered this month that you love BIG dogs.

Month 10
Busy busy busy–biggest deal this month was you began to walk assisted. Opening cabinets, getting in to anything and everything. You became exhausting, very quickly–but we love it. Thankful for your growth and development. You’re an eating-machine and haven’t found a food you didn’t like yet. You started to become pretty abusive toward mama-I have the bite marks and bruises to prove it. I had 4 back-to-back weddings this month and your dad would bring you to the ones in Uptown to visit. That was fun! We celebrated your best dad ever for his first Father’s Day too!

Month 11
We started to have more time in the pool with the summer heat, which you love. You got to go back to Colorado to visit your grandparents for a week! You had so much fun hiking and being outside. You are definitely “outside boy” as Marina would say. That is where you are happiest for sure. We started Music Together and you really took to it–you love music, have since you were born. You learned to climb this month. That was fun…not. Later in the month we visited the other half of your family when we all met up in Charleston. You got to meet your first cousin, Carter! You only hit/grabbed him a few times so hopefully he won’t remember. By the end of the month you were OFFICIALLY walking, all on your own. So proud!

Month 12
Last month as my ‘baby’. Time has just flown and you don’t seem much like a baby anymore. You’re tipping the scales at 27lbs and pushing 6-year-olds out of your way at the playground. We need to learn some manners little (big) boy. People can’t believe you’re only 11 months as you trudge down the streets of Uptown like you own the place. You are brave, and bold. No fear. Mama has all of your fear and thinks you might need a leash. We spend our afternoons on walks and on a really good day, Mama will even go in the Uptown fountains with you and get SOAKED. We have so much fun. We’re just a quick 2 blocks from home and people stare at me dripping wet as we roll back in to our condo. You’ve really taken to body-slamming the last couple of moths and think it’s hilarious. You bite your tongue sometimes when you do it though and don’t realize what happened. Your grandparents from NJ got you a tricycle and we use it ALL DAY, EVERY DAY. You absolutely love cruising on that thing and people in Uptown can’t stop laughing when they see you in that orange helmet. You are being spoiled all month with gifts–but what else would you expect? For your birthday we are taking you to Aruba to celebrate. Sorry that I’m not throwing you a party, but I doubt you’ll remember :).
Photography: ARTN Photography

We love you Callahan Ryan Hutchins. Thank you for being our biggest blessing over the last 12 months! We can not wait to see you grow even more!

Love, Mama xo